So you’re wondering how to make your ex want you back, right? Well, you’re in luck because we’re going to show you how… but first we need to cover the basics.
The first few days after a break up are the hardest. You may feel desperate and really want to make your ex want you back. But why? Not wanting to be lonely and knowing our ex is “The One” are two very different things. That’s why it’s important to examine why you want to get back together with someone who may have hurt you or the other way around before you start chasing them for a reconciliation.
Take a look below. Have you been known to utter some or all of these statements?
• “Everything will be different if she’ll just give me one more chance.”
• “I’ll never be happy without her.”
• “He was my everything.”
• “I’ll die without him.”
These are just a few statements probably lingering around in your head. While they may seem appropriate now, you’ll realize they are not at all true. You are perfectly capable of moving on with your life. The question is, should you do it with or without your ex?
If the above list of reasons are the only ones you have for wanting to get back together with your ex, you need to reconsider your thought process. Here’s the cold, hard truth – I’m giving it to you straight. You will not die without them. You can find happiness in your life. And, if he or she was your “everything,” you need to take a step back and insert meaning into your own life. YOU ARE IMPORTANT and deserve the best, don’t discredit your opportunity for a great life.
A Starting Point
The best thing to do in a situation like this is to make a list of “pros” and “cons” about your ex. Seriously! It may sound obnoxious, but you’d be surprised at how helpful it can be – especially if you re-visit the list after another couple of days. You need to uncover the whole truth and nothing but the truth about you and your ex.
And maybe that truth is… “We never should’ve broken up in the first place!” Think about it. Did you feel blindsided by this breakup? Perhaps a small fight led to the very rash decision to separate. You and your ex were trotting along your merry way and all of a sudden, a pothole interrupts the flow and one (or both) of you overreact. That’s a telltale sign that you need to give this another go.
Take some time to figure out what you really want. Does getting back together with you ex just mean more drama, spite and unhappiness? Maybe you’re only sitting through that relationship because you’re afraid of being lonely. Nope, that life ain’t for you! Think. Meditate. Seek advice from friends. Is this the person you want to be with? Do you want to fight for this?
If you do… GREAT. It’s time to get your ex back. The good news is you’ll learn everything you need to know about how to make your ex want you back in the Reunited Romance System. Watch the free presentation now to learn how.