So you’re wondering how to make your ex want you back, right? Well, you’re in luck because we’re going to show you how… but first we need to cover the basics.

The first few days after a break up are the hardest. You may feel desperate and really want to make your ex want you back. But why? Not wanting to be lonely and knowing our ex is “The One” are two very different things. That’s why it’s important to examine why you want to get back together with someone who may have hurt you or the other way around before you start chasing them for a reconciliation.

Take a look below. Have you been known to utter some or all of these statements?

• “Everything will be different if she’ll just give me one more chance.”
• “I’ll never be happy without her.”
• “He was my everything.”
• “I’ll die without him.”

These are just a few statements probably lingering around in your head. While they may seem appropriate now, you’ll realize they are not at all true. You are perfectly capable of moving on with your life. The question is, should you do it with or without your ex?

If the above list of reasons are the only ones you have for wanting to get back together with your ex, you need to reconsider your thought process. Here’s the cold, hard truth – I’m giving it to you straight. You will not die without them. You can find happiness in your life. And, if he or she was your “everything,” you need to take a step back and insert meaning into your own life. YOU ARE IMPORTANT and deserve the best, don’t discredit your opportunity for a great life.

A Starting Point

The best thing to do in a situation like this is to make a list of “pros” and “cons” about your ex. Seriously! It may sound obnoxious, but you’d be surprised at how helpful it can be – especially if you re-visit the list after another couple of days. You need to uncover the whole truth and nothing but the truth about you and your ex.

And maybe that truth is… “We never should’ve broken up in the first place!” Think about it. Did you feel blindsided by this breakup? Perhaps a small fight led to the very rash decision to separate. You and your ex were trotting along your merry way and all of a sudden, a pothole interrupts the flow and one (or both) of you overreact. That’s a telltale sign that you need to give this another go.

Take some time to figure out what you really want. Does getting back together with you ex just mean more drama, spite and unhappiness? Maybe you’re only sitting through that relationship because you’re afraid of being lonely. Nope, that life ain’t for you! Think. Meditate. Seek advice from friends. Is this the person you want to be with? Do you want to fight for this?

If you do… GREAT. It’s time to get your ex back. The good news is you’ll learn everything you need to know about how to make your ex want you back in the Reunited Romance System. Watch the free presentation now to learn how.

So, you want to know how to get your ex boyfriend back, right? Naturally, the first thing you’ll want to do is cry or scream or do something equally as pointless. But that isn’t gonna get you anywhere! It’s time for you to dry those eyes and get selfish. It’s understandable that this is a trying time for you. But I really encourage you to really use this time. Above all else, you simply must respect the space between you and your ex boyfriend for right now. The end goal is to have your ex boyfriend chase you but before you can get your ex boyfriend back, you have to tear the walls down and really examine WHO YOU ARE – emotionally, physically and spiritually? It’s an empirical truth that everyone could benefit from little “me” time.

Whenever I’m asked about how to get your boyfriend back, the first thing I tell the girl is that the breakup wasn’t their fault. Remember this breakup is just as much about you as it is about them.

Put some energy and real thought into this. It’ll get your mind off the breakup blues, that’s for sure! So let’s get talking…

The “Wow Factor”

Before you begin to get your ex boyfriend back, you HAVE to be ready. You must be armed with a new mentality and healthier outlook. When you see each other, you’ll look and feel different than you did when the fights started and the anger built up. Your ex will see those differences and look upon you with new eyes. This is what we like to call the “Wow Factor.”. What is that supposed to mean? It means when your ex sees you, all they’ll be able to say is “WOW!”

The are essentially 3 areas that we need to focus on in order to achieve the “Wow Factor:” The MIND, BODY and SPIRIT. It’d be great if we could magically change over night – stop our anger problem or lose 30 lbs – but that isn’t gonna happen. So don’t be discouraged if you run into some roadblocks. Take a breath and start again.

This is NOT about changing who you are. It’s about making you a better you. You need to be healthy and confident when the time comes to reconcile with your ex. And I’ll tell you right now… “healthy” does NOT mean supermodel skinny. “Confident” does NOT mean pompous and bitter. The goal is to be in a total state of self-reflection.

What things could you stand to improve on? It’s time to implement a mini-makeover of your mind, body and spirit. We show you how to do all of this in Reunited Romance so that’s definitely a good starting point. Can’t wait to talk more.

Much Love,

Ryan & Serena

So you’re officially single. I know, it hurts. You’re fragile and feeling weak. That’s okay! You’re human. I’ll be the first to tell you that you aren’t going to feel better overnight.

Grieving the loss of someone special is an everyday battle to stay strong and focused. Especially if you want to win that person back. But the very last thing you want to do is fall victim to a lonely night and ruin your chances of a reconciliation. This article will pull apart why you’re feeling incontrollable panic and go over some important do’s and don’ts for these next few weeks.

Don’t Panic

Every person in the world has gone through a break up. Either it’s your 3rd grade crush who stops playing with you at recess or it’s your lover of 5 years moving on. Take relief in the fact that you’re not alone. Everyone experiences heartbreak, and more importantly, everyone gets through it.

The biggest thing is that this person was not only your boyfriend or girlfriend, but your best friend, the person you spent most of your time with, shared laughs with and just felt comfortable around. So, it’s natural to feel loss of control and panic because that everyday familiarity has been yanked away from you.

Use this time. Use this precious alone time to regain your independence. Take care of YOU. Sure, it’ll be hard to get those thoughts completely out of your brain, but if you keep yourself busy you better believe they’ll be squashed out of the picture enough to get yourself in order.

Initiate “Operation: Yes”

Try this method on for size… I like to call it the Just Say YES method. It’s actually rather simple – say yes to any and all invitations. It’s imperative to keep busy so you don’t slip up. The “Just Say Yes” Method is initially not the most enjoyable part of this journey. But it gets easier!

Take a look below; here are some other very important “do’s”. Pay attention!

• Exercise. This is the BEST thing you can do. Exercising daily, even if just a little walk, will give you some sort of routine, will brighten up your emotional outlook, and do great things for your health.
• Bond with friends. This does not mean to call your friend and cry about Mr./Mrs. Wonderful. This means to talk with them, ask about their lives, laugh with them or go to movies with them.
• Keep up your other routines. Make sure to watch your hygiene (you’d be surprised). Guys: Keep up with the shaving! We don’t want you to look like a bum. Look your best. It will help you feel your best. Girls: Do your hair up all fancy-like! Wear a new outfit! It’s imperative to feel good about what you got going on.
• It’s hobby time! Come on, you know there’s something you’ve been meaning to spend more time doing. Photography? Golf? Writing? Hop to it!
• Do something for others. You’ll be tempted to wallow during these first few weeks. The absolute best thing you can do to get yourself off the brain is to get others on the brain. Even if it’s cleaning out the probably packed closet of yours and taking the extras down to a shelter.